do you ever look at someone and just fucking melt
Daily reminder:
If they wanna talk to you, they will. If they wanna be with you, they will. If they wanna make things work, they will. Don’t let things be one sided. It’s not healthy, and it’s not fair to you.
He should be treasured. He should be held in the highest esteem and respect.
Give him attention. Listen to him when he speaks. Listen just as closely when he is silent.
Ask him what he needs from you. What you can do for him.
Give him your time, your presence, your courtesy.
If he has never given any reason for you to doubt him, then don’t LOOK for things to doubt.
Be his pleasure. Don’t try to cause him pain.
Don’t test him, to see if he is “just like all the others”. Had an ex that hurt you? Yeah, we all have. He probably has too. Don’t treat him like its the fault of all men.
Treat him like a king.
Put effort into him.
Show him you’re worthy of how he treats you.
Give him a damned break.
Be at His side.
Give him reason to smile. To laugh. To feel good.
Take care of him.
If he’s a good man, and you want to be with him, be a good woman.
Edit - this entire post is partly in response to the mass of “treat women like queen’s!!!!” posts i see. So fed up of the one sided attitude that i had to try balance it out. Women and men deserve exactly the same treatment and effort.
